Always Giving Your Best Pt.4
A reader of this site was a little uncomfortable with the “you can’t be” in the last post and asked for a little clarification. So here it is, for all to see
Positive Psychology, many parents, and many Self-Help books will tell you that “you can be anything you want to be”. That’s not necessarily true. Can you be the President of the United States-maybe, can you be a superstar athlete-maybe, can you be………
You may not become anything you want to be, although you should try if that is where your passion lies. Go as far as you can go by putting all you have into it, and be happy with where it leads. If, for example your goal is to become number one at something, recognize that it is more than okay if you don’t succeed.
Otherwise, instead of raising your image of yourself, for accomplishing all that you did, it might lower it. This can lead to feelings of failure, envy, and then anger. That’s a no-no.
Realize, that it’s more than okay, because while you might not become number one at that something, you gave it your best. That alone teaches you consciously or un, a lot about yourself. You will have learned that while your physical potential is limited, it is indeed greater than you presently think. That will give you the strength and courage to always reach for your full potential.
While you may not become anything you want to be, you can be everything you were meant and needed to be and be number one at that. No one can be as good at the something that you were meant to be, as you can be. Only you can be the “Best-Est” at being you!
You were given gifts to use for your unique purpose and mission. There never was or ever will be anyone like you and there is a reason for that. The reason is that you and only you, here now, can make a certain and unique contribution to improve our world. Your contribution might not bring you fame and fortune, but it will improve your life by improving the life of another or others.
Sing Along With Me
“Only you can make all this world seem right
Only you can make the darkness bright
Only you and you alone…”*
When the great Rabbi Zusha was on his deathbed, He was surrounded by family, friends, and students. They saw him crying and asked if he was crying because he feared death. He explained that he wasn’t afraid of dying. He was afraid that when he died and met G-d, he wouldn’t be asked why he wasn’t more like Moses or Abraham; he would be asked why he wasn’t more like Zusha.
“I do not try to dance better than anyone else. I only try to dance better than myself.” – Mikhail Baryshnikov
“May you use all of your possibilities for the benefit of many.” – Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, the Lubavitcher Rebbe
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*From the song “Only You” by The Platters
P.S. The reader that requested this is now “Banned” and “No more soup for you” 😄
Always Giving Your Best Pt. 3
We are often told that “you can be anything you want to be”. That’s not necessarily true. If you love basketball, for example, as much as you try (and you should) it is unlikely that you will ever be as good as let’s say Kobe Bryant was. Yet no one can be as good at the something that you were meant to be as you can. Only you can be the “Best-Est” at being you.
You will find that something, your purpose, what you’re needed for, by constantly striving to find and reach your full potential in everything you do. You will ultimately find it when you meld the kindness and compassion of your soul into all of your physical, inter-personal, and material activities.
“Your physical potential while as yet not fully tapped is indeed limited. Your soul’s potential while not yet fully tapped is indeed unlimited”
So let this be another reminder to “Always Give Your Best” in everything you do!
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Memorial Day 2021
We’ve recently experienced the temporary loss of some of our freedoms due to the Covid-19 Pandemic. Let this experience of the loss, be a lesson and reminder, as to just how precious our freedom is. May it give us a deeper appreciation of freedom.
This year, let it serve as a reminder to be grateful for all of our freedoms which we often take for granted. So on this Memorial Day, let’s add an extra dose of grateful to those who paid the ultimate sacrifice for us.
As we exercise our freedoms, without which we couldn’t enjoy the activities of this day, without which you couldn’t climb your mountain and be you, let us take a moment to honor and remember those who made the ultimate sacrifice to attain and preserve our precious gift of freedom. In cherishing their memory, we remember to cherish our freedom.
The fallen understood this:
“Liberty is one of the most precious gifts heaven has bestowed upon man. No treasures the earth contains or the sea conceals can be compared to it. For liberty one can rightfully risk one’s life”. —Don Quixote
“When you know what you are willing to die for, then you will know what to live for”. — Jewish saying
Certainly something to be grateful for
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Always Giving Your Best, Pt. 2
Here’s a follow up thought to a recent Post “Always Giving Your Best”
We’ve all said to ourselves or to others
“I did the best I could”
or
“Im doing my best”
That’s how we might rationalize to ourselves and/or to others when we don’t get the results we were aiming for.
Be honest with yourself, and that’s hard, and ask yourself, “Did you” or “Are You”
How do you even know if you did or are?
Try This
The next time you workout, set a goal to go just a little further than the last time, or what you think is your limit. If you’re running – go a little further or a little faster. If you’re lifting weights, or doing pushups – do one more rep. I think you get the idea
When you do that that you may surprise yourself. Consciously and unconsciously, you will learn that while your physical potential is limited, it is indeed greater than you presently think.
So when life presents it’s challenges, you will know what your best is and that it’s more. You will be confident and believe in yourself. You can use that confidence to take on all the challenges that come your way on your mountain climb. You can use that confidence to realize your dreams and goals. You will believe you can and therefore the odds are better that you will endure, actually end up stronger, and be better prepared for the next challenge.
Then you can confidently say, “I did the best I could” or “I’m doing my best”!
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More One Liners
More Quick Thoughts That Deserve A Lot Of Thought
A champion is not necessarily the winner, but is one who gives their all at every moment in all they do
You are not just matter. It is you that matters.
You matter, not because you are, but by what you do and give.
The I that matters most is the I in kindness
If you are always looking back, then your future will look like your past
If you’re not looking forward now, you will be looking back later
Life like driving, can be very hazardous if you’re always looking in the rearview mirror
If you want to be valued, make yourself someone who is valuable
Bring out the value within
While I’m licking my wounds, someone else is being wounded
I have grown as a person and it is that growth that teaches and reminds me of Robert Frost’s words, “I have miles to go before I sleep”
I am not who I once was and not yet who I will be
A day of fulfillment is a day full and filled with purposefulness
Our true role is to give of ourselves, not necessarily to give our self, but to give of our self
You were given life for this moment, so that you can give this moment life
Time marches on, do you?
All of life’s choices have a price. We can’t choose the price. We can only choose whether or not we are willing to pay it
If you spend all day thinking about what you miss, you will miss today
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To see the first “One Liners” click here
Always Giving Your Best
Imagine that you are at a golf driving range, or batting range, or hitting a tennis ball machine. You can see the bucket of balls, so you know there are many. Does that make it easy for you to not put your best swing into each ball? Do you say to yourself “eh, I’ll get the next one”?
What if you couldn’t see the bucket and therefore didn’t know how many balls there were? How would you approach each ball?
What if you knew that there might only be one ball? How would you hit that ball or each ball? What would you put into that swing? Presumably, you would give it your best attempt/swing.
In order to make it the best swing, you would focus on all parts. You would start with the purpose, and to get there you would focus on your stance, your grip, and finally and very importantly the follow through.
Each swing is done with best of you at that moment. If there is another ball, the purpose in the next swing, is to improve on the last one. Each ball if approached with your best, is another opportunity for growth. If approached this way, you will get closer and closer to becoming the human your were created to be and needed for. You can get there by constantly tapping into all of your possibilities. Isn’t that exciting and inspiring?
We always have room to grow. In order to “climb your mountain” requires constantly growing.
So let’s all hit the ball as if it were the only one
Always giving your best in all you do, makes each moment the best one yet
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One Liners
Quick Thoughts That Deserve A Lot Of Thought
I’ll see it, when I believe it.
Don’t predict your future, just be prepared for it
Finish what you start and that will make you stronger, healthier, better
If it’s worth starting, it’s worth that much more when you finish
More is not always better. Better is always more
Once you have found your goal, make sure that all of your actions are aimed at that goal
To find your purpose, do everything with purposefulness
You cannot lower your mountain, but you can elevate yourself
You cannot climb your mountain by staying on a flat road
If you demand your best, you can command your best
What you do and how you do it determines who and what you ultimately become
Believe in yourself, if you don’t, no one else will, and if you don’t why should they
The question shouldn’t be how is life treating you, but rather how are you treating life
Your power is in your follow through
Your best is yet to come
Your persistence says how much you want it
Feed the “I”, so that it is nourished enough to feed others
The ego-centric I is a taker. The other-centric true you is a giver
Are your words or actions a giving or a taking
People want their lives to change, but are they willing to make changes
Don’t measure your self worth by your net worth
What you do for a living is not who you are, but how you do it is
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