HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY 2020 and Many More
The Declaration of Independence was signed on July 4, 1776. It said;
“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”.
The founding of America was then, a very novel idea in building a nation based on individual rights and freedom. A nation founded on the idea that man is inherently good and given freedom could/would live up to that good. A nation founded on the belief that all are created in the image of G-d. That we are all children of G-d. That given freedom, we could and would eventually have a country that lives up to and recognizes these “self-evident truths”.
Those who got freedom back then, were grateful. Yet it was not something that they were familiar with and had no real experience. They were an imperfect people given the freedom and opportunity based on the founding principles to grow and become a more “perfect union”. So began the journey in learning how to use their new freedom.
We were created with free will. The USA was created to be a land that gave us the opportunity to express our free will. With the freedom of free will, we can choose to elevate ourselves and become the person we were created to be. A unique person, with a unique purpose and mission for which we were each created. A mission that contributes to the benefit of all. A person who follows
“Love your fellow as yourself” (Leviticus 19;18).
“If I am not for myself, who will be for me. And if I am only for myself, of what good am I.” – Hillel, Ethics of fathers 1:14
Without these rights and freedom we could not pursue our dreams and our individual purpose. When we use that freedom to be who we are meant to be, to fulfill our unique purpose, America will be all that it’s meant to be and what it was created for. Without the freedom to fulfill our individual purpose, we will never get to a land fully defined by it’s founding principles.
What could be more gratifying for each of us to know that we chose, because we could, to use that freedom to reach our ultimate potential as human beings. To know that it came from you and not imposed on you. To look around us and see that all are enjoying “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness” To be truly United. It may take longer than we would like but freedom is the only way to get there.
If there are faults in America, it is not the fault of America. We are all still imperfect people.
A young child asks his parents on a long trip, “Are we there yet?”. The parent answers “no, not yet”. On our journey, we must constantly ask ourselves, “Am I there yet?”. Each of us is a work in process that can lead to progress. The closer we get, the closer we will be to the goal that America was founded on. We have made much progress, so let’s keep going, until the answer becomes, “yes, we are there”. Without freedom we will never get there!
To have the freedom to pursue and become our true selves is indeed something to be thankful for.
Our liberty should be celebrated everyday by using it for the good of all.
May we cherish, be grateful for, and protect those freedoms for many, many more years.
May we use our freedom to fulfill our greatest human potential.
HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY
G-d Bless America
Your Comfort Zone
We often stay in our comfort zone no matter how uncomfortable it may really be.
Here’s a favorite quote that’s a reminder to push ourselves through challenges to bring a desired change.
“Life begins at the end of your comfort zone”. – Neale Donald Walsch
In order to accomplish anything important and of value requires making changes. Those changes require getting out of what has become our comfort zone. Those changes come with some struggle. Diamonds are not found lying on the ground.
The desired change(s) begin with your decision and commitment to make those changes.
Let’s say you want to get in better shape. You hire a personal trainer to help you do it. The trainer will put you through drills and exercises that you might not like and might not want to do. Those drills will cause some pain and discomfort. When you are done, you are stronger, healthier and better. Could you have gotten those results without all the blood, sweat, and tears?
“All things are difficult before they are easy.” – Thomas Fuller
All the above applies to our choice to get out of our comfort zone in order to grow in some way.
This pandemic has taken us way out of our comfort zone and not by our choice. Although it has been forced upon you, you can choose to use it as a catalyst and an opportunity to grow and reach new personal heights. Being forced out of your comfort zone, rather than choosing, could be the most significantly meaningful opportunity to make the most significant and meaningful changes for yourself and by extension for the world.
“When we are no longer able to change a situation – we are challenged to change ourselves.” – Viktor E. Frankl
Are there changes you could/should make?
Hopefully, you have used this time to think about what your priorities have been. What they are and/or what should they be? What is truly valuable to you? What will really bring you joy, not just happiness? What gives your life purpose and meaning, or what could?
Now having been forced out of your comfort zone, make those changes for now and going forward. Commit to them and you will come out of this stronger, healthier, better, and more joyful.
Warning
Do not let this “Shelter In Place” become your new comfort zone!!
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I Remember
Today is Yom Hashoah, Holocaust Remembrance Day.*
In honor of all those who perished, were murdered in the Holocaust, and what lessons we can learn from remembering, I send this to you.
My parents are Holocaust survivors, or now, were Holocaust survivors. In their honor and memory, I remember. In memory of the six million Jews who were murdered, I remember. For this I say “Never Again”. We remember to honor those who were murdered and to ensure that it doesn’t happen again, anywhere, and to anyone.
“What does it mean to remember? It is to live in more than one world, to prevent the past from fading, and to call upon the future to illuminate it.” Elie Wiesel
This year we have another reason to remember. While we remember the many, too many, who were murdered, shot, gassed, and many, too many who perished from Typhus, malnutrition, just gave up, suicide…. Today we also remember and think of those like my parents, who weren’t murdered… who survived, as our existence is challenged by Covid-19.
While it is not an apt comparison, as no comparison is fair or equal, they can serve as lessons, reminders, and add some perspective.
To most of us, it is unimaginable how the survivors survived enduring the unendurable and unimaginable.
They were able to do this because consciously or un, they believed that their lives had a purpose and meaning. They had faith, hope and looked to the future with that. They believed they had something or someone to live for. If they didn’t, they probably wouldn’t have survived in the first place.
This is a powerful lesson and reminder for us all. These survivors remind us of what people are capable of enduring, how, and why.
It is a powerful lesson for all of us today in “shelter in place”, uncertain of how long, fearful of the disease, mourn the loss of life, fearful of our personal economic future, etc.
Just like the survivors did, let’s replace fearful thoughts by looking to the future with faith, hope, and purpose. With that, we can and will get through this to a brighter tomorrow.
“The way in which a man accepts his fate and all the suffering it entails, the way in which he takes up his cross, gives him ample opportunity—even under the most difficult circumstances—to add a deeper meaning to his life.” – Dr. Viktor Frankl from “Man’s Search For Meaning
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*Today is also the Yarzheit, anniversary of my Mother’s passing. I write this in her honor and memory. Quite a coincidence that her passing was on the same day as Yom Hashoah?
The Things We Learn
As we continue to go through this very challenging time, we learn some things, and are reminded of some that we already knew. We knew them, but allowed them to fall from daily practice. Or we never really put into practice, even though we knew better. Now we can learn and/or learn again and put them into regular practice now and when things get better (not if – but when).
Some Lessons Of The Many Lessons
Priorities
Many of the things that we made priorities, we now realize aren’t really that important. We learn about that which truly matters, puts meaning in our lives, and hence brings real joy. Take inventory of how , where, and on what you’ve spent your time before. This period has given us an opportunity to learn what really matters.
Connecting
We learn the value of staying connected. We learn the value of a phone call, not just social media or text. Let someone hear your voice, so they know you care. Don’t you like to hear someone’s voice? How much more personal and meaningful is that versus social media? Social media takes very little time and effort.
We all know someone who in normal times could use some love and attention, how much more so now. So many of us are in “stay at home” and have cabin fever. What about those that have empty cabin fever? Make the call and make it a lasting habit
Always Wear A Smlie
Remembering to always smile. It makes you feel better. It brings a ray of sunshine to what might be a cloudy day to the person you’re smiling at.
The downside of wearing a mask, is that someone can’t see you smile. I was on a walk the other day and as usual I wave and smile at everyone. Two women were walking towards me from the other direction. One of them said to me “I’m smiling back, but you can’t see it because I’m wearing a mask”. I said, “I can tell that you were smiling. Keep smiling whether you think someone can see it or not. They may not see it but they can feel it” She said was very touched. The I left her with this quote
“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight. – Phyliss Diller
Don’t Procrastinate
We all to some degree procrastinate. This pandemic reminds us of how quickly things can change. We are reminded of how precious each moment we are given is. With those reminders, we are reminded to not put off. If we do the shelves might be empty and there will not be any toilet paper…….that was a joke/ metaphor. Only put off that which shouldn’t be done t all.
“I was planning to procrastinate, but I never got around to it.” – Unknown
Take For Granted Or Be Grateful
There are so many things that we normally take for granted and now we realize that they are things we should be grateful for. Be grateful for the things we take for granted or don’t take for granted the things we should be grateful for.
I don’t take for granted the loyal readers of this site and I am always grateful for them. That is why I do this.
Let’s learn to remember and remember to learn
Learning, remembering, and putting into action the many lessons will bring more happiness to your life and will make this a better world when this is over.
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These are just some reminder/lessons. Using the comment box, please share the ones you’ve learned
Sing A Song*
I am positive that having a positive attitude is always the best way to live. A positive attitude does not guarantee a positive outcome, but it does guarantee that you will be better able to handle anything that comes your way. A positive attitude can improve your immune system versus a negative attitude that weakens it.
When negative thoughts try to enter, and they will, especially now, sing them away with a song.
Sing it out loud, or to yourself, or to someone who needs to hear it. No sad songs, only songs that will lift you up, put a smile on your face, bring some tears of joy, and give you hope!
If words are the pen of the heart, then song is the pen of the soul.” – Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi
Here is a list of suggestions. All of these songs do it for me*
*”Sing A Song” – Earth, Wind, and Fire
“Put On A Happy Face” -Dick Van Dyke from “Bye, Bye Birdie”
“I Whistle A Happy Tune” – Gertrude Lawrence From “The King and I”
“Something’s Coming” – Brian Stokes Mitchell original version from “West Side Story”
“Here Comes The Sun” – Richie Havens
“Tomorrow” – Aileen Quinn from “Annie”
“You’ll Never Walk Alone” – Gerry and the Pacemakers original version from “Carousel’
“What The World Needs Now Is Love” -Jackie De Shannon
“Put A Little Love In Your Heart” – Jackie DE Shannon
“Somewhere Over The Rainbow” – Judy Garland from “The Wizard Of Oz”
“Smile – Nat King Cole
“What A Wonderful World” – Louis Armstrong
“You’ve Got A Friend” – Carole King
“Impossible Dream” – Brian Stokes Mitchell from “Man Of La Mancha”
“Gonna Fly Now” – from “Rocky”
There are many, many more. Please use the comment box to add your suggestions
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*Im positive that I’ve left many out. There are several versions of these above named songs
