Reality TV (episode 2)
Seeking popularity and fame via our reality show leads to others dictating who we are or should be. It means succumbing to the values and mores of the time, rather than what is right and good throughout time. Or in Maimonides’ phrase of “do what is right because it is right.” It means blocking ourselves from our uniqueness and therefore our unique purpose.
Life is not a popularity contest, although wouldn’t it be nice if doing good simply because it is good was more popular? We could use the Biblical Abraham here as a role model. Abraham is often described as gentle, kind, gracious and courageous. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks describes Abraham as having lived the “heroism of ordinary life, being willing to live by one’s convictions though all the world thinks otherwise, being true to the call of eternity, not the noise of now.”
“One who desires the attention of others, has not yet found himself.” – Rabbi Shlomo Wolfe
“A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back to the crowd.” — Morris Mandel
To read Reality TV (first episode) click here
See How Do I Know What My Purpose Is series here
How Do I Know What My Purpose Is? (first in a series)
Your specific purpose may become clear to you any moment, or it may take a lifetime. Yet there is a way to find it.
It is traveling your path with purposefulness. It is a path of good. It is a path where we ask ourselves in all that we are about to do is this for the good? Will this benefit another or others? As long as the answer is yes then we know that we are headed in the right direction.
A rule for the road
“It is easier to do what is right than to right what is done”. – Rabbi Shraga Silverstein
How Do I know My Purpose series
An Oldie But Goodie, originally posted 2/15/11
Doubt As A Four Letter Word
You’re in the ring. You’re in the fight and executing your plan. Yet you can’t seem to land a punch that has any real impact. You’ve taken some hard punches. You start to wonder what it will take and if you have it. You start to consider throwing in the towel…. sing along with me, “It’s the eye of the tiger, it’s the thrill of the fight, rising up to the challenge of our rival”, Survivor
“Don’t be discouraged, it may be the last key in the bunch that opens the door”. – unattributed
“It takes twenty years to become an overnight success”. – Eddie Cantor
part of the Eye Of The Tiger series
An Oldie But Goodie, originally published March 7, 2011
Reality TV
With all the popularity of Reality TV shows, imagine for a moment that your life was a reality show. What and how would you want people to see you? Does that match what they would see? Let’s go a step further, imagine that you suddenly got amnesia and you are watching a reality show of your life. What would you think of you?
“Act the way you’d like to be and soon you’ll be the way you act.” – Leonard Cohen
“Reality is an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” – Albert Einstein
