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Cracked Pot

November 8, 2011

Many years ago an elderly woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole, which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect. At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the perfect one always delivered a full portion of water, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

This went on daily, for two years with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.  The cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it was supposed to do.

After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure,  the cracked pot spoke to the woman one day by the stream.  “I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house.”  The old woman smiled, “Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot’s side?” “That’s because I have always known about your crack, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house.”*

Each of us has our own unique flaw.  Our specific purpose and mission is found in our uniqueness.  For the one with the flaw, it’s the challenge to both improve and find how it can be used for the benefit of others.  For those seeing the flaws in another, it’s the challenge of recognizing its potential benefit and to remember that we all have one.

*I wish I remembered the source for this story so that I could give credit where it’s due

Reality TV (episode 2)

November 7, 2011

Seeking popularity and fame via our reality show leads to others dictating who we are or should be. It means succumbing to the values and mores of the time, rather than what is right and good throughout time. Or in Maimonides’ phrase of “do what is right because it is right.” It means blocking ourselves from our uniqueness and therefore our unique purpose.

Life is not a popularity contest, although wouldn’t it be nice if doing good simply because it is good was more popular? We could use the Biblical Abraham here as a role model. Abraham is often described as gentle, kind, gracious and courageous. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks describes Abraham as having lived the “heroism of ordinary life, being willing to live by one’s convictions though all the world thinks otherwise, being true to the call of eternity, not the noise of now.”

“One who desires the attention of others, has not yet found himself.” – Rabbi Shlomo Wolfe

“A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back to the crowd.” — Morris Mandel

To read Reality TV (first episode) click here

See How Do I Know What My Purpose Is series here

How Do I Know What My Purpose Is? (first in a series)

November 6, 2011

Your specific purpose may become clear to you any moment, or it may take a lifetime. Yet there is a way to find it.

It is traveling your path with purposefulness. It is a path of good. It is a path where we ask ourselves in all that we are about to do is this for the good? Will this benefit another or others? As long as the answer is yes then we know that we are headed in the right direction.

A rule for the road

“It is easier to do what is right than to right what is done”. – Rabbi Shraga Silverstein

How Do I know My Purpose series

An Oldie But Goodie, originally posted 2/15/11

 

Doubt As A Four Letter Word

November 4, 2011

You’re in the ring. You’re in the fight and executing your plan. Yet you can’t seem to land a punch that has any real impact. You’ve taken some hard punches. You start to wonder what it will take and if you have it. You start to consider throwing in the towel…. sing along with me, “It’s the eye of the tiger, it’s the thrill of the fight, rising up to the challenge of our rival”, Survivor

“Don’t be discouraged, it may be the last key in the bunch that opens the door”. – unattributed

“It takes twenty years to become an overnight success”. – Eddie Cantor

part of the Eye Of The Tiger series

An Oldie But Goodie, originally published March 7, 2011

What You Are Needed For

November 3, 2011

Many years ago there was a very wealthy man who was a pillar of his community. He was very charitable and many came to him for loans, advice, investments in their business, and just to be around him. One day through no fault of his own he lost everything.  Now no one came and he was left to be alone with his sadness.

He became very depressed. So one day he went to see his spiritual leader Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi (1745-1812), known as the Alter Rebbe. He presented his letter to the Rebbe outlining the help he was seeking.  The Rebbe read the letter and looked up at him and said “I see you have given a great deal of thought as to what it is that you need, but have you given any thought as to what it is that you are needed for?”

“Once you have found that which you are needed for you will have all that you need”

Reality TV

November 2, 2011

With all the popularity of Reality TV shows, imagine for a moment that your life was a reality show. What and how would you want people to see you? Does that match what they would see? Let’s go a step further, imagine that you suddenly got amnesia and you are watching a reality show of your life. What would you think of you?

 “Act the way you’d like to be and soon you’ll be the way you act.” – Leonard Cohen

 “Reality is an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” – Albert Einstein

The Tightrope Walker

November 1, 2011

This story takes place in a Soviet labor camp during the time of Stalin’s rule. One of the prisoner’s of the camp was Rabbi Mendel Furtefass. Being a Rabbi, he made it a point to get to know all of the other Jewish inmates, who were imprisoned there just because they were Jews. One of the inmates that he met was someone who claimed that he was a tightrope walker. The Rabbi was very curious to learn more, because he couldn’t imagine how anyone could accomplish this feat and why anyone would choose to do something so dangerous. In keeping with his belief that from everyone there is something to be learned he asked for an explanation. Words couldn’t possibly give an adequate understanding as well as a demonstration could. This was impossible until the day Stalin died and the guards relaxed many of the restrictions. So the tightrope walker found a rope and attached it to the outside of two buildings about fifteen yards apart and about ten feet off the ground with no net. At first, he fell after only a few steps since he hadn’t done this in a long time. Then he confidently proceeded to dance across the rope turn around and return. The Rabbi asked “How do you do it?” The tightrope walker answered, “It’s simple. Before I begin, I find an object on the other end and focus on it. I don’t dare take my eyes off the object while I’m walking. I don’t look to the right; I don’t look to the left. As long as I focus on my goal, I make it across.” *

similar to the story of the Road Runner read here